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• Cats that feel threatened will resort to aggression.
Not all foster cats will respond well to children, so exercise discretion if your foster cats
are very timid or afraid of loud noises.
Working with Shy & Under Social Cats
Here are the Top Five Tips for working with your shy foster cat, especially when you first
bring the cat home:
1. Safe Hiding: When you first bring home a rescue cat, set up your safe room
according to the instructions about the Safe Room/Sanctuary Room.
2. Hang Out: Spend time in the safe room. Read text messages or articles aloud
and narrate your actions. This allows the cat get used to your voice and your
presence as a non-threat. Always get low and quiet with shy and timid cats: sit or
lie down to make yourself small, without shoes or boots. Leave one of your t-
shirts or objects with your smell on it near their sleeping/nesting area that they
can smell it on their own time; leave treats near it so they can start to associate
your smell with good things.
3. The Slow Blink: Lie on the floor and slowly blink your eyes several times. The
idea is to get the cat to blink back or soften their eyes back at you. This is a sign
of trust for cats: only predators don’t blink! Try this as a first step before going in
for pets. When you first introduce your hand to a cat, bring it in slowly but
smoothly, palm down. Let the cat smell your hand. Watch the cat’s
communication signals: if they show signs of fear (ears back or flat, eyes wide
and dilated), stop and take a step back. Try to reengage in slow blinking. If their
ears are forward and they seem receptive, go in for a pet on their cheeks to
release some positive pheromones.
4. Food Rewards: Find out what your foster cat’s favourite treats are and use this
knowledge to build a positive association between you and the cat. If your cat is
afraid of hands, try to toss a treat in their direction (but not at them!) If they eat it,
gradually toss them closer and closer to you. With each treat work up to getting
yourself closer to the cat as much as they will comfortably tolerate, building up to
them eating out of your hand. This may happen over several days or even
weeks. The idea will be to eventually pair your touch with the reward of the treat.
5. Play Time: Play time can be therapeutic for rescue cats in particular. Engaging
in play helps build their confidence by tapping into their natural abilities and
strengths. Cats take pride in catching their prey and they can quickly forget their
shyness when they are lost in the “hunt.” For shy or timid cats, even watching
(called "tracking") a toy's movements means the cat is mentally engaged. This
still counts as play. You can start by using long feathers along the floor or wall.
Playing peek-a-boo with the feather under doors or around corners can also
pique their curiosity. Build up to an actual hunt and chase. Sustained, daily
playtime routines are important to maintaining their confidence level, creating a