this!means!either!to!practice!forbearance!or!to!extend!forgiveness,!in!both!cases!
leaving!justice!and!retribution!to!God.!!
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The! counsel!of!Proverbs!is:!Exercise!self‐control!over!your!temper.!Do!so,! first,!by!
maintaining!a!biblical!perspective!on!justice!and!injustice.!Do!not!be!surprised!to!
encounter! injustice! and! to! be! treated! unjustly! in! this! world.! As! Proverbs! 13:23!
observes,!“A$ poor$ man’s$ field$may$produce$ abundant$ food,$but$injustice$ sweeps$ it$
away.”+The!cultivating!of!the!land!can!produce!an!ample!amount!of!food,!but!it!is!
injustice!that!deprives!the!poor!of!their!necessary!food.!We!must!remember!that!
the! LORD! Himself! is! the! true! source! of! justice! and! the! final! Administrator! of!
justice:!“Many$seek$ an$ audience$with$the$ruler,$ but$ it$is$from$Jehovah$ that$ a$man$
receives$justice.”$
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Secondly,! we! must! maintain! a! biblical! perspective! on! disappointment! and!
adversity.!Rather!than!be!surprised!by!such!occurances!and!become!embittered!
by! them,! we! must! submit! unto! the! will! of! God! and! wait! to! see! His! hand! and!
purpose,!as!did!Joseph:!!
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When$ Joseph’s$ brothers$ saw$ that$ their$ father$ was$ dead,$ they$ said,$ It$ may$ be$
that$Joseph$ will$ hate$us,$ and$ will$fully$ repay$ us$for$all$ the$ evil$that$ we$ did$to$
him.$
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So$ they$ sent$ a$ message$ to$ Joseph,$ saying,$ “Before$ he$ died,$ your$ father$
gave$ this$ command,$
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‘This$ is$ what$ you$ are$ to$ say$ to$ Joseph,$ I$ ask$ you$ now,$
please$forgive$your$brothers’$transgression$and$sin$in$doing$you$wrong.’$Now,$
we$beg$you,$forgive$the$transgression$of$the$servants$of$the$God$of$your$father.”$
Joseph$ wept$ when$ they$ spoke$ to$ him.$
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His$ brothers$ also$ came$ and$ fell$ down$
before$his$face;$and$they$said,$“Look,$we$are$your$servants.”$
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And$?&("4%#(+'2#
*&#*%"/1#@A"+.#,&*B# 9&.#+/#C#',#*%"#4)+3"# &9#D&2E$
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8(#9&.#0&61#0&6# /"+,*#
">')#+-+',(*#/"B#;6*#D&2#/"+,*#'*#9&.#-&&2,$to$accomplish$what$is$now$being$
done,$namely,$the$saving$of$many$lives.”!(Gen.!50:15‐20)!!
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Let! us! also! put! our! confidence! in! the! assurance! given! by! the! Apostle! Paul:! “we$
know$that$all$things$work$together$for$good$for$those$who$love$God,$ those$who$have$
been$called$according$to$his$purpose”!(Rom.!8:28.)!
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Exercise! self‐control! over! your! temper! by! practicing! discernment,! asking! the!
question,! “What! is! causing! me! to! become! angry?”! Is! it! justifiable! for! me! to! be!
angry?!If!so,!you!must!handle!that!anger!in!a!biblical!manner:!"'Be$angry,$but$do$
not$sin.’$Do$not$let$the$sun$set$on$your$anger;$
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do$not$give$a$place$to$the$devil”!(Eph.!
4:26‐27.)! ! It! is! legitimate! to! express! your! righteous! anger,! but! do! not! retain! it,!
allowing!it!to!settle!into!bitterness,!for!to!do!so!would!be!to!allow!the!devil!to!gain!
control!of!your!spirit.!Having!expressed! your!anger,!turn!it!over!to!the!Holy!Spirit.!
Is!it!not!justifiable!for!me!to!be!angry!in!this!matter?!Is!my!anger!caused!by!envy!
or! jealousy! or! some! other! ungodly! motive?! If! so,! you! must! release! both! your!
anger! and! the! unholy! motivation! for! your! anger! to! the! LORD,! asking! for! His!
forgiveness!and!redeeming!grace.!
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