chance that they will not understand what is being said to begin with. The full list of cancer terminology is
long, complex, and confusing. The typical thirteen-year-old will not know what an astrocytoma is. A sixteen-
year-old girl will probably have heard about neuroblastoma, but it’d be fairly unlikely for her to know just
what is going on inside her little sister’s adrenal glands. It’s important for young people whose loved ones
have been affected by cancer to understand why they need treatment, and what is happening in their body in
the first place. This knowledge is nearly as important for them as it is for the cancer patients themselves.
That being said, a website would be a very useful tool for these young people to use. Going to an event on
this topic may either not appeal to them, or not be applicable at all, since many of them either can’t drive
themselves there or are too busy to. Similarly, having a school-sponsored event on cancer and how it affects
the family may not exactly be a teenager’s forte, either; at this age, it’s often embarrassing or awkward to be
seen in a situation like that, and many kids don’t want their peers to pity them if they find out what is going on
in their household. In this day and age, we are blessed with a world of information at our fingertips. A website
would be a discreet and easy-to-access way to find the information these kids direly need. Moral support for
their mother’s breast cancer or little sister’s brain cancer, as well as information on what it is in the first place,
would be just a click away.
Furthermore, it’s also important for young people to understand that they are not alone in this process.
It’s estimated that, according to the National Health Interview Survey (NHIS) conducted from 2000-2007, over
2.58 million children under the age of eighteen are living with cancer survivors. Furthermore, it was estimated
that 562,000 minors were living with parents who were currently undergoing treatment. These numbers do
not even include children whose friends or siblings were diagnosed with childhood cancera disease which
approximately forty-three Americans under 18 are diagnosed with every day. All-in-all, the number of children
and adolescents indirectly affected by cancer is substantial. However, when a loved one is diagnosed, it
sometimes feels like you are the only person in the world that is experiencing this hardship. Social psychology
says that just knowing that someone else is experiencing the same thing as you can increase your coping skills
substantially. Even one word of assurance from someone who has gone through the same challengethe
same hours spent in waiting rooms and the same feelings of confusion, fear, and sadnessis enough to lift a
thousand pounds of weight off a person’s shoulders.
This is a very personal issue for me. In April 2015, my mother was diagnosed with a ductal carcinoma in
situ (DCIS). While the cancer was thankfully non-invasive, it was still a scary diagnosis; this was yet another
fright on my mother’s long list of health scares. My closest friends supported me during this time, but many
people were acting like this diagnosis wasn’t a big deal at all. “It is a big deal!” I wanted to scream. “My
mother is sick again, and now there’s a big chance it won’t be the last time!” We kept her diagnosis a secret
and because of that, I was unable to talk to my friends whose parents had experienced cancer. I felt like no
one understood me and no one cared. I may have been sitting at every doctor’s appointment, absorbing the
doctor’s every word like a sponge, but I felt as alone as I would have felt in an empty room. I don’t want the
562,000 minors whose parents are currently experiencing cancer to feel the way I did. My goal is to educate as
many minors as possible about what is going on inside their loved one’s body, as well as to remind them that
no matter how alone they feel, someone else has gone through the same exact thing.